Buying Kelly Day September 15, 2026
Different Ways to Pay for Your Down Payment on a Home
One of the biggest things I hear from buyers is, “I’d love to buy a house, but I don’t have enough saved for the down payment.”
And I completely understand why that can feel like a roadblock. When you hear the words down payment, it’s easy to assume you need tens of thousands of dollars sitting in your savings account before you can even think about buying.
But here’s the thing: there are several different ways buyers can come up with the funds for a down payment. And depending on your situation, you may have more options than you realize.
Here are some of the most common ones I encourage buyers to explore.
1. Your Own Savings
The most obvious option is money you’ve saved specifically for your home purchase. This could come from your regular savings account, a dedicated home-buying fund, or even money you’ve been setting aside over time.
And remember, you don’t necessarily need to put 20% down. There are loan programs that allow for significantly smaller down payments, depending on your qualifications.
2. Gift Money From Family
Did you know a family member may be able to help with your down payment?
Many mortgage programs allow eligible buyers to use gift funds from approved donors, such as parents or other family members. There are specific rules and documentation requirements, so it’s important to talk with your lender before moving money around.
For some buyers, this can make the difference between continuing to rent and becoming a homeowner.
3. Down Payment Assistance Programs
This is one I really want buyers to know about.
There are local, state, and other assistance programs designed to help qualified homebuyers with their down payment and sometimes closing costs.
Eligibility can vary based on things like income, location, purchase price, credit, and whether you’re a first-time buyer. Some programs may offer grants, forgivable assistance, or other forms of help.
If you’ve never looked into these programs, don’t automatically assume you won’t qualify. It’s worth asking.
4. Employer Assistance
Some employers offer homeownership benefits or assistance programs as part of their employee benefits.
This isn’t available everywhere, but it’s worth checking with your HR department. You might be surprised by what’s included in your benefits package.
Certain professions and community-service careers may also have specialized homebuyer programs available, so don’t overlook those options either.
5. Retirement Account Funds
Depending on the type of retirement account you have and your circumstances, there may be ways to use retirement funds toward buying a home.
For example, certain IRA rules can allow eligible first-time homebuyers to withdraw money for a home purchase without the usual early-withdrawal penalty, although taxes and other rules may still apply.
401(k) loans or withdrawals may also be an option in certain situations.
This is one where I strongly recommend talking with your financial advisor or tax professional first.Your retirement savings are important, and you want to understand the long-term consequences before using them for a home purchase.
6. Selling an Asset
Some buyers use money from the sale of another asset to help fund their purchase.
That could be proceeds from selling another home, a vehicle, investments, or another significant asset.
If you’re selling a home and buying another one, your existing home equity may become an important part of your next down payment.
7. State and Local Homebuyer Programs
Depending on where you’re buying, there may be programs specifically designed to make homeownership more accessible.
For Memphis-area buyers, for example, it’s worth looking into programs available through state and local organizations, as well as programs offered through participating lenders.
The important thing is don’t assume the only money available to you is the money currently sitting in your bank account.
One More Thing: Don’t Forget About Closing Costs
Your down payment isn’t the only upfront expense you’ll need to plan for.
Buyers should also budget for things like closing costs, inspections, appraisal fees, prepaid taxes and insurance, and other expenses associated with purchasing a home.
The good news? Depending on the transaction, there may also be ways to negotiate for seller concessions or utilize assistance programs to help with some of these costs.
That’s why I always encourage buyers to look at the whole financial picture, not just the down payment.
So, Where Should You Start?
If you’re thinking about buying but keep telling yourself, “I don’t have enough saved for a down payment,”don’t count yourself out just yet.
Start by talking with a good lender about what you actually qualify for. From there, you can explore down payment assistance, gift funds, loan options, employer benefits, and other resources that may be available to you.
You don’t have to figure it all out by yourself.
Buying a home is a big decision, but understanding your options can make the process feel a whole lot less overwhelming. My job is to help you understand the process, connect you with the right people, and make sure you’re not overlooking an opportunity that could help you get to the closing table.
If homeownership is something you’ve been putting off because of the down payment, let’s talk before you assume it’s out of reach.
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